Designing a Headstone

When you’re making funeral home preparations in Silvis, IL one decision you’ll have to make is how to mark the memorial or grave site. One of the most common types of grave markers is a headstone. But what is a headstone and wow do you go about designing one? 

The first step is to learn about the different kinds of headstones so you can be better prepared to choose the one that’s right for you and your needs. There are a few different kinds of grave markers that you will have to choose from. The most common kinds of grave markers include flat markers like ledgers and slabs, upright monuments like headstones and mausoleums, bevels, slants, and cremation monuments like traditional urns, columbarium, and more creative urns. Don’t forget to consider what kind of material you want the grave marker to be as well. What kind you choose depends on your budget, burial plot, and style preferences. 

Generally, if you’re working with a funeral director, he or she will give you pertinent information regarding that funeral home’s specific headstone purchasing and designing process. However, it doesn’t hurt for you to be familiar with the process and some key parts. 

Use these headstone tips to help guide you. 

• Choose a Budget – You need to come up with how much you can or are willing to pay. It’s difficult to come up with an average cost for a headstone because they vary so much when it comes to finish, size, material, lettering, artwork and other personalized features. However, don’t forget to include the costs for delivery and installation in your calculations. 

• Choose a Family Representative – While everyone in the family might want to be involved in the headstone design process, having too many cooks in the kitchen can get messy. Especially when grief is involved. Its best to designate one family member or loved one that oversees the design and inscription process. That way, the process is streamlined and simplified for everyone. 

• The Designer – Headstone designers are important as they not only give you design suggestions and letterform ideas but also play a large role in capturing the essence of the deceased. Be sure to choose an experienced designer that understands your vision and can help you create a personalized memorial. 

• Write an Inscription – The inscription, sometimes referred to as an epitaph, is one of the most important parts of a headstone. When choosing what you want the headstone to say, be sure to really take your time. Headstone inscriptions are permanent, so you need to ensure that its meaningful, personal, and something that will remain so for years to come. One way to ensure it will be meaningful for years to come is to avoid using cliches and generic phrases. While “In Loving Memory” is nice, its rather bland and doesn’t say anything specific about the deceased. Try using poems, quotes or songs for inspiration. 

Trimble Funeral Home & Crematory is here to help you if you want more information on designing a headstone or Silvis, IL funeral home services. Call or visit us today to learn more about what we can do for you.